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" A FRIEND MAY WELL BE RECKONED THE MASTERPIECE OF NATURE"
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
BBF (BEST BUDS FOREVER)
We spent the evening and night with Bubba's BBF, Butch and his lovely wife Karen. Butch has been Bubba's friend since 5th grade in Sarasota Florida- 1958. He lived one house over. They struck up their friendship with Boy Scouts, fishing, camping, hunting..two peas in the pod. Well actually more like Mutt and Jeff- Butch was small and Bubba was a biggin. In 1964, Senior year in high school, they were caught skipping school. So they decided, hey let's just not go back. Let's join the ARMY. Say what Bubba? Both were underage, 17, so they had to have their parents sign. Poor Mom Collins, was beside herself. His Mom threatened to get his older cousin to beat some sense into him, but that didn't work either. So off Butch and Bubba went to Fort Gordon and Fort Jackson, then on to Germany... Bubba, how could you be stationed together over and over? We went in on the Buddy Plan. The what? Yup, way to "recruit" those dumb 17 year old kids. They actually compromised, Butch wanted to go into the Navy and Bubba into the Marines- so the ARMY was the logical sign up. The BBF split off because on a trip home Butch got married and Bubba volunteered for Viet Nam. Notice how they both ended up in law enforcement too. Yup. BBF.
They remained friends through the years but became BBF's again through Bub's resurgence of his love of hunting. Butch and Karen live in South Carolina so Bubba's farm (SC) was the perfect place to rendezvous. Since Bubba sold his farm poor Karen has had to run a B and B for the boys to hunt out of. Thank you St. Karen, you really raised the bar for Sainthood. How do you define a friend? SYMPATHY, EMPATHY, INTIMACY, HONESTY, UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSION, TRUST, GIVE AND TAKE..... Who is your BBF? Do you still have childhood friends? High school friends? College friends? Friends from the first "neighborhood" you lived in? From your former jobs? From your former clubs or sport teams? Is there different criterion for man to man or man to woman friendships or woman to woman or woman to man relationships? Sadly, a recent study (American Sociological Review) found that Americans have suffered the loss of quality and quantity of close friendships- going on since 1985. How awful! For me it is important and very special and a privilege to have those long time friends. Bubba agrees...he's happy to know there are others out there willing to put up with Boca too.
We are blessed both with quality and quantity- happy to defy that research. A big shout out to our dear and wonderful friends. WE LOVE YOU GUYS!